Thursday, April 23, 2009

Divorce is not the destiny of Marriage

There is a say “marriage is the tomb of love”, we don’t know how many people believe in it, , we can just simply assume that most of the married ones will believe but not those singles, how could this assumption arise, we can see there still thousands of people get married every day, same as the divorced cases. Is it a very funny thing? I believe that no one will think about divorce before their marriage, every one is imagining his/her bright future on the wedding day.

Why we can only love each other in happiness, but not in chaos, from the survey we can see the divorce rate is going higher and higher every year in US, we have too much of freedom to choose our life style, so we forget our vows on the wedding, we forget the little children actually need parenting lives. So we started to ask whether divorce is the destiny of marriage, I don’t think that God created couples aims to split families.

I don’t mean to blame those are divorced or divorcing, may we should think carefully before we get married and even more carefully when we think about divorce. As we know marriage is like a flower, if you water it with all your heart and effort, it will bloom abundantly, if you don’t or just leave it in wind, it will withered.

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